a possesive pronoun

March 1, 2006

I thought quite a bit about my girls today.  Rayli is beginning to use such big words…stringing them together as though she had planned all day to use a big word and hoping too that I would notice.   I’m sure she doesn’t quite care—but complete sentences for a two-year-old who uses correct tense in her verbs is indeed quite impressive.  I pulled into the driveway today and Jaime and the girls were outside in the driveway.  “My daddy’s home.” she said.   It was the first time, that I can remember, that she used the 1st person possesive pronoun in reference to me..I was ’something’ to ‘her.’   
I have long called her, “my little mocha,” or “daddy’s girl.”  She has never said that I am “Rayli’s daddy” or “my big hero.”  For some reason, two-year-olds only use possesives for stickers and blankies…but I made the cut today…entered into something special to her…something she wanted to label as belonging to her.  

I felt the weight of fatherhood in all of this.

5 Responses to “a possesive pronoun”

  1. Mark K Says:

    She’ll remember who her daddy is when she want’s the car keys and some gas money.

  2. jboyd Says:

    I am sure she will….which, at that point I will teach her the second person possesive pronoun when I say, “where are YOUR keys…and where is YOUR money.” :D

  3. Andy Whitman Says:

    Yeah, and just wait until the third-person pronouns enter the picture, as in “No, you cannot spend the night at his house,” and “He did what?” Life is full of grammatical challenges.

  4. amy paxton Says:

    Haha! Jared, I liked your response to Mark K’s comment.

    I scrolled down to see that pic you posted earlier of your girls…they are so beautiful…and very smart!!


  5. That’s cool.–>


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